Author : John Peace
You have tried hard enough to improve your lives but to no avail. You ask why? You feel that you are not the lazy type but instead, have strong determination to make a difference, but the results are still not ideal. The possible reason could be, you are not using the right technique to improve your lives. Just like playing any sports, you can have the energy, stamina, and muscle, but you still cannot play it well. Why? This is because you do not have the necessary training, knowledge and skills. Similarly, to improve your lives, you also need the necessary knowledge, skills and technique. Below are 7 suggested ways that you can consider trying to improve your lives.1. You have to focus on what you want rather than what you do not want. If you keep focusing on what you do not want, you will definitely attract those things that you do not want. You are simply attracting what you do not want. This is the law of attraction. To make it right, you will have to start focusing on what you want. You have to do it regularly until it becomes a habit. Basing on the law of attraction, you will then attract what you want.2. Do not be fearful or worrisome. To fear or worry will not add any second, minute or hour to your lives. Isn't it? No one can predict the future, including you. Therefore, do not fear for the future or the unknown. Focus on the present moment. It is the present, the NOW that you can control.3. Give value to yourself. You are a valuable person irregardless of your situation and circumstances. You are not here to be mere existence. You have the rights to be here and be proud of yourself. In your lives, I believed that you will have some accomplishments, whether small or big. Take pride in those achievements. Give yourself credit. From today onwards, give yourself credit and praise when you have accomplishments or have achieved something no matter how big or small at home or at work.4. You are great yourself. You do not need to compare with others. Comparison will get you no where but will instead lead you to bitterness and disappointment. There is a Chinese saying, there is always a mountain peak higher. This means, there will always be someone higher than you and also lower than you. So, why do you need to compare. You should build your confident on your own strength and capability. Live on it to the fullest. You will be happier this way.5. Hold on to the good things that come along your way. Am I insane to say this? Who on earth with a right frame of mind will let go good things? You may not be consciously award of this. When you receive something, receive it with good faith and appreciate it. However, at times, you may want those things that you have achieved to be far better and superior. So, you start to seek for new things and abundant those things you already have. Isn't it that you are throwing away good things? Think about it.6. Cherish relationships and do not chase them away. Do you have the tendency to find fault with people that you come in contact with? Do you set an extremely high standard on them? Perhaps you can adopt a more open mind to accept their shortfall. Remember, this is your judgment on them. It may not be true. By embracing a more accommodating attitude, you will start to realize that people are after all not that difficult as you think. Please remember you are not perfect as well.7. Have a purpose and goal in life. Do not live a life of wonderers. You got to have a purpose in you live. With a purpose, you will then be able to focus your energy toward it. Start writing all the things that you want to achieve and make an effort to achieve it and stop wasting time focusing on the negative things.After going though the 7 ways, can you identify why you have yet to improve your lives? You can consider to use one or more of the ways to improve your life. You can create your life by design rather than by living in default. Start to make a difference in your life now, not later or tomorrow. For more information, please refer to Motivation and Inspiration.John Peace.
Freelance Writer.
Special Interest in Motivational and Inspiration subjects.
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(Adopted from Dr. Robert Anthony's teaching.)
Keyword : Motivation, inspiration, self-help, improvement
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