Author : Michael Manjin
It all clicked for my friend Robby not long ago while attending a personal success and wealth building seminar. "All this time I never fully understood why I would experience one business failure after another". "Now I finally understand why" he stated in a rather enlightened way.Robby is a bright guy. He has all the "right stuff" one would expect of a successful person. He has a great education with an MBA in marketing. His father was a successful real estate developer. His mother a successful surgeon. He has some great role models in his life with lots of support and guidance along the way. So what was Robby's problem?After speaking with Robby for a while it became obvious what was going on. Robby always associated his success with the success of those closest to him. His parents. He never quite had given himself permission to succeed on his own terms. Just as his business would start doing well he would subconsciously pull back and in essence sabotage himself. He never felt worthy of the success he had experienced. Obviously Robby's emotional guidance system needed some fixing to get him back on course.How many times have you or someone you know been on the verge of succeeding or actually succeeding at something only to find success slipping away or come crashing down? At first it's natural to place blame elsewhere. After all, it can't be me. Right?Some excuses might be:Bad luck
Bad timing
Not smart enough
Not enough money
Not experienced enough
on and on the list goes...Eventually you come to realize that they amount to nothing more than excuses and that success in life begins and ends with you!If you think you can or you can't your rightYour success in life essentially boils down to a belief in yourself. Initially your belief started out as a thought. Those thoughts when they become focused and repeated often enough eventually form a belief. The beliefs that you formulate and internalize through your thoughts and actions either take you closer to or further from the success you seek. You literally end up thinking your way to success or failure through the beliefs you form over time and the manifestation of your reality through those beliefs.The Law of Attraction is the primary universal principle which draws to you those events that closely match your current vibrational frequency. If you hold the belief that you will be successful and irrevocably and unequivocally continue holding to that belief you can't help but be successful. On the other hand if your beliefs are such that you continually doubt yourself or have very little to no confidence in your abilities then you will manifest a reality that aligns itself with that vibrational frequency.If you control your thoughts you determine your reality and ultimately the success and happiness (or lack thereof) in your life. The choice, of course, always has been and always will be yours and yours alone.To your continued success,Mike ManjinMike Manjin presents advice on self improvement for success and personal fullfillment. To learn more about his success principles or for more information email him at mmanjin@lifealteringprinciples.com or visit www.lifealteringprinciples.com
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